Can You Find Love on Online Dating?

Online dating has replaced the bar scene when it comes to meeting new people. Social media sites such as Facebook and Friendster have allowed people the opportunity to not only chat with someone who shares common interests, but also the rare opportunity to get a glance of the daily activities and feelings of the one that they are interested in. Dating sites everywhere have taken advantage of this growing trend and pride themselves on providing clients with the most compatible partner they can find. The question is, does it really work?

Statistically, there are 40 million people in the United States that have tried online dating, with 20% of them in current committed relationships. This being said, whether or not a relationship will work after meeting someone online is a question that can not be universally answered. There are many different factors that go into making a relationship work, making the origins of where you met irrelevant. If meeting through Facebook, you have the advantage of getting a personal glimpse into the personality of an individual. You are able to see the people they associate with and in most cases, how they carry themselves. Dating sites offer profiles of people who were specifically chosen for you, who share the same interests and values that you do. With all of this at your disposal, how could anything go wrong?

With dating sites, the main issue is people tend to lie about as much as they can to create an unrealistic image that will make people fall in love with them. After talking on the phone or online, they meet each other and realize that the person they may have been falling for was not who they said they were. Another, more dangerous issue, is that there have been many cases of violence toward women who have used a dating site, and there are many reported cases of sex offenders who often register on these sites to seek out potential victims.

Facebook may seem like the perfect way to meet someone, but brings its own set of unique issues. While generally an effective way to get to know someone, it may be hard to see the true personality of an individual until after you have met. Most times, people tend to leave many facts about their personal life off of Facebook. While this is a good idea, you could find that the person you thought you knew acts very different than you expected.

True love is hard enough to find, no matter how you choose to do it. The most important thing to remember is to take it slow. Rushing into a relationship with someone that you have met online is never a good idea. Develop good communication over the phone and when setting up the first meet, do it in a public place. From there, it is dating as usual.

No matter how you choose to look for love, compatibility and attraction are still the foundation of a long lasting relationship. Online dating is here to stay and can be a very effective way to find the person of your dreams.
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